We know how it feels when you're invited to a wedding and the classic dilemma begins: what should I wear? Which shoes should I choose? And the bag?
We've been in that situation a thousand times, so today we want to share our favorite tips to get the combination of wedding shoes and bag right, so it looks coordinated, elegant, and with your personal touch.
Fashion shoes and bag, same color? No, and here’s why
One of the most frequently asked questions: do I have to wear a wedding bag and shoes of the same color?
Our answer is clear: not necessarily. It’s a safe option, yes, but not the only one nor always the most interesting.
If you go for a more sober or monochromatic outfit, matching shoes and bag in the same tone can bring elegance and simplicity. But if your dress is very striking or you want to play with contrasts, you can dare with combinations that add dynamism. Sometimes, a metallic shoe with a pastel-colored bag or even a vibrant one with a neutral clutch creates that unexpected point that elevates the look.
The key is that the accessories talk to each other, even if they are not identical. That they share a color range, a finish, or simply a style.
Wedding shoes: how to choose the ideal pair
For us, the shoe for a wedding must have three things: style, personality, and comfort. Because we know that day you won’t stop walking, posing, and dancing.
If your dress is plain or in neutral tones, striking shoes can be the star of the look.
We love metallics (gold, silver, copper...), mirror-effect finishes, or even jewel tones like emerald or burgundy. But if your dress is already the protagonist, then nude, black, or soft-toned shoes will help balance the outfit without taking away strength.
The type of wedding and the place also influence. If it’s in the countryside, we opt for wider heels or platform sandals. For an urban wedding or in an elegant hall, stilettos or thin sandals are a safe bet.
The bag: small, but with a lot to say
The bag for a wedding must be practical, yes, but above all special. You don’t need to carry a huge one (no one carries a phone and lipstick in an XXL bag), but one that adds to the outfit.
We love structured clutches or handbags. Materials like satin, velvet, or metallic work very well for formal events. And if the shoe already has a striking finish, the bag can be more discreet… or vice versa. It’s that balance that makes everything flow.
One idea we use a lot is to choose the bag in a complementary tone to the shoe. For example: nude shoe + gold clutch, or bottle green sandal + lavender bag. Those subtle combinations make the outfit harmonious and stylish without seeming too “matchy.”
What to do if you wear a printed dress
When the dress has a strong print, we try not to complicate things with accessories. In that case, the best are plain wedding shoes and bags, in one of the tones of the print or in neutral colors.
Our trick? Take a secondary color from the print and use it in the shoes or bag. That way we get a coordinated look without everything being the exact same tone. And if the print already includes a lot of shine or texture, matte finishes on the accessories to avoid overloading.
What to avoid when combining shoes and bag for a wedding
What we do try to avoid (especially at weddings) is mixing too many textures or colors without connection. For example, a glitter shoe with a raffia bag and a satin dress can be chaotic. Less is more.
We also avoid shoes that we know will destroy our feet. No matter how pretty they are, if you can’t dance in them, they’re no good. Because a comfortable guest is a guest who truly shines.
What if you don’t want heels?
Totally valid. More and more guests opt for flats, elegant mules, or even boots if the wedding allows it. The important thing is that the accessories maintain that special air, even without heels. Some flat sandals or loafers with jewel details can be just as sophisticated as a stiletto.
In summary: create your combination with intention (and your own style)
Combining shoes and bag for a wedding is not a matter of strict rules, but of good taste, harmony, and above all, authenticity. At IT Shoes we are clear: the best looks are those that represent you. And if a pair of shoes makes you smile when you put them on… it’s the perfect pair.
Explore our collection of wedding shoes and find that pair that makes you the center of attention.
